4.take an active interest.
4.表达出积极的兴趣
Take a real interest in the things important to your special someone.
对爱人感到重要的事情表达出真正的兴趣。
Listen to him or her andhavea conversation aboutntheir hobbies, career etc.
对他们的爱好和工作等要倾听和交谈。
Learn something new about the topic. It will make them feel undersood.
从这些话题中了解些新情况，这么做会使他们觉的被理解。
5.do special things just for them
5.特意为他们做些事情
Find out what the special person likes .do you like cards, flowers, foot rubs, special books or magazines?
用心了解爱人喜欢什么东西。卡片，花朵，鞋刷，特别的书籍或是杂志？
You may not like or want the same things. That's ok.
你可能不喜欢或不需要同样的东西，没关系。
Do something or give something they like.
做些他们喜欢的事情或给他们一些喜欢的东西，
Make them feel special see how many of these you can practice in one week with special people in your life
让他们感觉很特别。给自己一周时间试试以上的方法，为你的一生之爱做些事情，
and watch your relationships and intimacy grow.
看看你们的关系有没有进一步发展。
