We need to start talking about how women underestimate their abilities
我们要讨论 女性相比男性
compared to men and for women
为什么会低估自己的能力
but not men
而且和男性不同
success and likeability are negatively correlated
对于女性 成功和受欢迎程度是反向相关的
That means that as a woman is more successful in your workplaces
这意味着一个女性在事业上越成功
she will be less liked
她就会越不受人喜爱
This means that women
这意味着女性
need a different form of management and mentorship
需要另一种形式的管理和辅导
a different form of sponsorship and encouragement
另一种形式的支持和鼓励
and some protection
甚至一些保护
in some ways, more than men
在某些方面 要比男性有更多的保护
And there aren't enough senior women out there to do it
而且现在有资历做这些的女性还太少
so it falls upon the men who are graduating today
所以在座的男性毕业生们要和女性毕业生们
just as much or more as the women
一起肩负起这个责任 甚至更多
not just to talk about gender
不仅仅讨论性别
but to help these women succeed
而且要帮助女性取得成功
When they hear a woman is really great at her job but not liked
当听到一个工作上很优秀的女性不为人爱戴
take a deep breath and ask why
深呼吸一下 问问自己这是为什么
We need to start talking openly about
我们需要公开地探讨
the flexibility all of us need to have both a job and a life
我们都需要的灵活机制来平衡工作和生活
A couple of weeks ago in an interview I said that
几周前我接受了一个采访
I leave the office at 5:30 p.m. to have dinner with my children
我说我会5点半离开公司去和我的小孩吃晚饭
And I was shocked at the press coverage
而媒体报道让我震惊了
One of my friends said
我的一个朋友说
she wasn't sure I couldn't get more headlines
她不确定 就算我用斧子砍人
if I had murdered someone with an ax
是否能上一样多的头条
I told her I wasn't really interested in trying that
我告诉她我对砍人没兴趣
But this showed me
不过这让我明白
this is an unresolved issue for all of us
对于我们所有人不管是男人还是女人
for men and women
这是个未解决的问题
Otherwise
要不是这样
why would everyone write so much about it
为什么大家会对此有那么多评论
And maybe, most importantly
也许 最重要的是
we need to start talking about how fewer women than men
我们应该开始讨论为什么只有少数的女性
even from places like HBS, most likely even in this class
即便来自HBS 即便是你们这届毕业生
aspire to the very top jobs
渴望坐上最高的领导职位
We will not close the leadership gap
我们无法弥补领导岗位上的差距
until we close the professional ambition gap
除非我们先弥补职业抱负上的差距
